True Love Retreat
A 2-Weekend workshop for couples
Live and in-person in Boulder
2x Saturdays 9:00 to 6:00
2x Sundays 1:00 to 5:30
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After 27 years of supporting couples, we have found that this educational approach greatly accelerates positive change and growth when compared to private therapy. It delivers more lasting change, at only one third of the hourly cost of therapy.
You’ll have the advantage of learning from a real couple. We share what has helped us in our 30-year journey as two stubborn, opinionated, and apparently incompatible people… who love each other regardless. As you witness us working through charged issues you will quickly absorb and retain the capacity to do so yourselves.
$1397 includes the following four elements:
Two Weekend Workshops
The Magic of Passion and Respect
Enjoy breakthrough results in these areas and more:
Communication Arts—master the 4 essential skills for having fruitful conversations
Managing Difficult Emotions—like shame, fear and anger—in ways that brings you closer
Emotional Intimacy—discover the safety to confide and compassion to listen
Sustaining Goodwill and Generosity
Love Languages—these small steps ensure that your partner feels loved and valued
Sharing Responsibilities—learn about the surprising connection between housework and sex
5 Magic Moments (plus 3 Easy Hacks)—to significantly improve your love and happiness
The Empathy Spiral—successfully handle conflict with understanding and respect
The Art of the Apology and Finding Forgiveness—how to heal past disappointments
How to Fight Fair for a Healthy Relationship—instead of struggling against each other
Passion and Romance and Fun
Discover Passion and Eroticism—that grows and deepens over time
Bridge Differences in Desire—in ways that work for both of you
The Joy Museum—to remember and build on the good times
Building Your Future
Clarify your Values and Life Goals—so you can create a future that inspires you both
Forward Focused Requests—how to successfully advocate for positive change
Align on Your Priorities—so you attend to what matters most
The tools changed patterns that I’ve been working with in therapy for 10 or 15 years and could not budge. The material is excellent, well-rounded and varied. —Mary and Charley
Seeing you working through real life issues was an inspiration and a huge help. I love the humor.
—Cherie and David
Tools for True Love Guide
Mastering the Six Dimensions
Concerned about holding on to the positive changes you will make? This well-designed comprehensive manual is your permanent guide to relationship tips and tools in the future. It is an invaluable resource for staying on track.
Friendship—Loyalty and Devotion
Fun and Play—Creative Freedom
Passion—Sensuality Sexuality Romance
Self-care—the Four Aspects of Well-being
Respect—Enduring Love and Acceptance
Mission and Values—Creating a Lasting Legacy
Personal support will be available to you during the weekend workshops, to help you successfully navigate any stuck places or challenges that come up—including areas that have been resistant to change in the past.
I never imagined that we could make this much progress. I am impressed and grateful for all the effort, love, and knowledge you bring to these weekends. The tools are amazing, but your dedication to every participant is what makes the magic.
—Cam and Kristi
Your humor and compassion, presence and authenticity have created trust and filled each session with warmth, care and courage.
—Jada and Caleb
VIP—Very Inspired Partners
$1697 includes everything above, plus the following for those seeking extra support, personal connections and integration time:
Three Zoom Sessions
You will receive extra support and connections via online Zoom sessions.
Two will be held between the weekends. One will be held after the second weekend. All will be at times TBD that work for you.
Small group connections and exercises
Ask questions and receive detailed support
Practice new approaches with support
Integrate your learning to optimize your results
Love Card Deck
from the School of Life
This is an elegant tool to spark meaningful conversations with lovers and friends around love and relationships. Inside the box are 100 large beautifully crafted cards with questions designed by leading experts. Open a revealing conversation about who you are and who you hope to become, including the pleasures and complexities of love and intimacy.
Joy, Ease and Happiness
It’s completely changed our whole relationship. We had been in couples therapy for over 10 years… and this was completely different than anything we’ve ever done. We feel closer and more connected than we have in years. The program is simple and brilliant and effective. It’s really changed us.
—Annabel and Peter